What do YOU think the rules should be?
Do YOU think there should be rules?
If you really wanted to, you could ______________? Why can't you have a blast every day? Who actually SAID that Monday through Friday had to be boring and the weekends you could have fun.
LAME!
Girlfriend you can build a fort on a Thursday at 4:00 if you want!
You don't have to have a label, or be in a box.
Your identity.MIGHT be keeping you stuck! What have you been believing you are? Maybe your identity is keeping you stuck! If you believe you are a $50,000 a year person, you'll keep making choices that reflect that.
If you believe you are a lawyer, you'll act accordingly.
If you believe you are an actor, you'll act accordingly.
If you believe you are a beginner, you'll act accordingly.
If you believe you are advanced, you'll act accordingly.
If you believe you are stupid, you'll act accordingly.
If you believe you "aren't someone who ___________" you'll act accordingly.
FILL IN THAT BLANK!
I'm not someone who goes to the beach
I'm not someone who skiis
I'm not someone who goes to Haunted Houses
I'm not someone who goes to bed early
I'm not someone who talks to people first
I'm not someone who does fancy eye shadow
IT DOES'NT MATTER WHAT IT IS the point is you need to be aware of it!
You're not confined by the job you have. You still have a purpose. Even if you have a "positive" identity
, it can still be un liberating.
Identity gives you both freedom and lack! There are many beliefs that are cultural, so deeply rooted in your culture that it wouldn't even cross your mind to challenge that belief. I challenge you to check in with your intuition as you take steps, and don't check in with Google, or somebody who is not fulfilled.
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